In the journey of faith, there’s a crucial distinction between waiting ON God and waiting WITH God. It’s not just wordplay; it reflects a profound difference in mindset and approach.
Waiting ON God often entails impatience, a sense of entitlement, and a desire for immediate fulfillment. It’s akin to tapping one’s foot, saying, “Alright, God, when will you make this happen? I want it now!” This attitude can lead to frustration and even taking matters into our own hands, as I learned from my own story.
When I sold my condo in 2022, I was convinced it was God’s will. However, instead of waiting WITH Him, I was waiting ON Him, eager for the next step without fully surrendering. I hastily decided to move to Los Angeles, driven more by a need for validation, the urge to chase reality, and undesirable patterns, rather than by divine guidance. The result? The worst three weeks of my life, filled with anxiety and regret.
I realized then that I had approached the situation all wrong. Instead of trusting in God’s timing and plan, I allowed self-validation and impatience to dictate my actions. It was a painful but necessary lesson.
Waiting WITH God, on the other hand, involves trust, surrender, and patience. It means aligning our will with His and being open to His guidance, even when it doesn’t align with our timeline or expectations. It requires faith to surrender our desires and allow Him to work in His time and His way.
Your kingdom come.
Your will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven – Matthew 6:10
In my journey back home, I came to understand the importance of waiting WITH God. It’s not about passively sitting back; it’s about actively participating in the process of preparation and transformation. It’s about letting go of what no longer serves us, trusting that God is preparing us for the promises he has placed in our hearts.
Proverbs 3:5 reminds us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts and not lean on our own understanding. This verse encapsulates the essence of waiting WITH God – trusting him wholeheartedly, even when we can’t see the full picture.
Even if we find ourselves revisiting the same lesson multiple times or returning to a familiar place, there’s nothing wrong with that. Our journey is uniquely tailored for our growth and understanding. So, returning back to Los Angeles again is a part of the journey then so be it. Some of us are stubborn and refuse to fully submit until we are ready. Trust me, when you are ready, everything—absolutely everything—will fall into place.
I invite you all to take a moment and check out last week’s episode of Dose of Doris, where I delve much deeper into the journey I am currently on. To close, the best thing we can do is openly embrace the journey, knowing that God is with us every step of the way—or, in my case, giving me a second chance in the City of Lost Angels.
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In the enchanting world of 1950s fashion, where grace, elegance, and timeless style reign supreme, the choices we make reflect not just our wardrobe but a commitment to a bygone era.
As a fashion model, on-air vintage style expert, and YouTube host, I am deeply passionate about preserving the aesthetic of the 1950s era. It’s important to me to clarify the difference between vintage & thrifting – two terms frequently used interchangeably but representing distinct approaches to style.
Vintage, in the context of 1950s fashion, is a curated collection of garments from the actual era itself. These are treasures that have withstood the test of time, carrying the essence of an era celebrated for its meticulous tailoring, feminine silhouettes, and attention to detail. Each vintage piece tells a story, weaving a narrative of the past into the present, evoking the glamour of icons like Audrey Hepburn and Marilyn Monroe. Investing in vintage is an homage to craftsmanship, embracing the authenticity of a bygone era.
On the other hand, thrifting is a contemporary endeavor that involves scouring second-hand stores for unique finds, often from a variety of eras. While thrifting can yield remarkable discoveries, it lacks the specificity and historical context inherent in true vintage pieces. Thrifted items may span various styles and decades, making it an exciting but eclectic venture. It’s a treasure hunt where unexpected gems are waiting to be uncovered.
So, why draw a distinction between vintage and thrifting? It’s about preserving the integrity of the 1950s aesthetic. Vintage pieces offer a genuine connection to the past, embodying the spirit of an era known for its grace and sophistication. Thrifting, while an adventure in sustainable fashion, tends to amalgamate styles and eras, diluting the distinct charm of the 1950s.
In essence, embracing vintage in 1950s fashion is an act of reverence, a commitment to the artistry and ethos of an iconic era. It allows us to transcend time, celebrating the enduring allure of a period that continues to inspire and captivate the hearts of fashion enthusiasts around the globe. So, whether you’re donning a meticulously tailored vintage dress or embarking on a thrifting adventure, remember – each choice reflects your dedication to the timeless elegance of 1950s fashion.
Explore this topic further and gain valuable insights on how to shop for vintage by tuning in to my latest on-air segment, filmed on location at the Antique Warehouse in Salida, alongside host Cody Stark on Good Day Sacramento.
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In the world of fashion, there’s a unique joy in discovering vintage clothing pieces that not only tell stories of the past but also redefine your style in the present.
While the idea of owning vintage clothing for free might seem like a far-fetched dream, the power of manifestation can turn this dream into reality. Some of you may have had a glimpse of me on Good Day Sacramento, where I discussed with Host Cody Stark my style journey, particularly within the realm of vintage fashion. Following that live TV segment, numerous messages poured in, inquiring about my sources for vintage pieces. In response, I wanted to delve into the art of manifesting your way into discovering free vintage clothing treasures, enriching your wardrobe without straining your budget.
Set Your Intention:
Manifestation begins with a clear intention. Start by visualizing the specific vintage clothing items you desire. Imagine the texture, colors, and styles that resonate with your fashion taste. Setting a clear intention helps you focus your energy and attract the right opportunities.
Gratitude and Positivity:
Cultivate an attitude of gratitude and positivity. Be thankful for the clothes you already have and express gratitude for the vintage pieces you are about to receive. Positive energy attracts positive outcomes, increasing the likelihood of stumbling upon amazing finds.
Networking and Community:
Engage with local thrift stores, vintage markets, and online communities. Networking with fellow vintage enthusiasts opens doors to free clothing exchanges, swaps, and giveaways. Online platforms (Next Door + FB Market Place) and social media groups often host events where members share or exchange their vintage items, allowing you to expand your wardrobe for free.
Visualize Your Finds:
Visualization is a powerful tool in manifestation. Imagine yourself finding incredible vintage pieces effortlessly. Picture yourself trying them on, feeling confident and stylish. The more vividly you can visualize your desired outcome, the more likely it is to manifest in reality.
Be Open-Minded and Patient:
Manifestation works best when you’re open-minded and patient. Be open to receiving unexpected opportunities and unique pieces that may not align precisely with your initial vision. Sometimes, the universe surprises us with items we never knew we needed but end up loving.
Express Gratitude:
When you manifest your vintage clothing finds, express gratitude for each discovery. Acknowledge the universe’s role in providing you with these treasures. Gratitude strengthens your connection with the universe, making future manifestations even more powerful.
Manifestation is a transformative practice that can bring remarkable changes into your life, including enhancing your wardrobe with unique and free vintage clothing finds.
On January 19th I invite you to join me for a live shopping TV segment on Good Day Sacramento where I will again be joining Host Cody Stark on location. There is an art to vintage fashion and its time me I share that with others.
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